Sunday, June 4, 2006

Relationship & Happiness

We think we are insufficient alone. Relationships make us complete.

But isn’t it true that, unless we are happy and content with ourselves, no relationship will make u so?

But feeling incomplete with ourselves though, we still get into relationships and seek self worth in their eyes. Only to discover, that what we are seeking isn’t there. What was supposed to be a fresh bloom of fragrance- the relationship- then starts smelling rotten.

Knowing very well that the relationship is causing more unhappiness than happiness we still hold on to them for perpetuity, thinking breaking up will be unbearable (Silent Sufferers).

If we seek relationship for happiness, then why don’t we end it the moment it itself starts hurting us?

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